Answers

Oh, the lure of simple answers

To difficult questions!

I could embrace such explanations

Join a tribe that hypes me up

And assures me that I’m right

But I’ll keep listening

To different voices

Even those that make me cringe

Face uncertainty and confusion

Questioning answers – simple or otherwise.


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Sides

An influencer

Accused of deceit

Targeted

By envious opponents?

The powers that be

Bent on discrediting

The truths he exposes?

Some followers

Rush to defend him

Shaming his accusers

And other slanderers

Standing by the one they trust

Against their oppressors

On the side of justice?

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So Far

After multiple conversations with Dad, I now had a list of the major events in his life, from his birth to the present day. It made a good table of contents, but not a compelling biography. For that, I needed to find out about his inner life.

“Dad, what were the happiest times in your life?”

“I don’t usually have emotional highs and lows,” he said, frowning slightly.

Except when you’re angry, I thought.

“What about when you and Mom got married?”

He shrugged. “Yeah, it was a happy day.”

I waited for him to elaborate, but he didn’t.

“What about when I was born?”

His face suddenly relaxed, taking on a gentle, nostalgic expression. I squirmed in my seat.

“You were the most beautiful baby I’d ever seen!”

My breath stopped short. It was the first time he’d ever called me beautiful.

“Of course,” he added, “I was biased.”

His poker face was back; so was mine.


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Multitudes

I love you

I hate you

l thank you

I resent you

We’re blessed

We’re cursed

We’re free

We’re trapped


“I am large, I contain multitudes.” – Walt Whitman

“Given the circle of love and strife, the further we push single-mindedly in one direction, the more we achieve it’s opposite.” – Iain McGilchrist

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Out of Touch – Pandemic Haibun Challenge

Thanks to my dear friend, Tre, for hosting this challenge!

Before the pandemic, I wasn’t aware that so many people would miss physical contact with others. How could I not have known something so obvious? By not having thought about it before. I have a bad tendency to scoff at people who are touchy-feely. The difference now is that I catch myself sneering and remind myself to be more compassionate. As a child, I needed physical affection to develop into the adult I am now, and I’m grateful to have received it.

Seeing friends online

Makes you somewhat less lonely

But you yearn for hugs


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Replay

Inseparable we were

Sharing toys and dreams

Until I had to leave

Now I’m back

And you look for me

Where we used to play

Make-believe

But you saunter past me

Did you imagine

Finding someone else?


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